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LOVE to LEAD: How loving yourself makes you a great leader

February 12, 2018 By Maria Leave a Comment

After my most severe bout of depression, I went to see a healer/coach. She said to me,

“You need to love yourself more.”

I didn’t get it. Why did she say that?

I treat myself well.
I buy the things I want.
I don’t deprive myself of comfort.
I am proud of what I’ve achieved.

It took me a few years to understand what that statement meant.

Love is an unconditional state. It doesn’t come with strings attached and it is given freely. But the way I grew up, I saw love as a currency traded.

“Do / Be / Get … so others would Love You”

I took great care in questioning everything that came in my world.

“Why am I doing / being / getting …? Is it because I want to? Or because I want to be validated?”

That started an inner conversation that tore my reality apart and made me transcend to the next level.

Every validation I yearned from others, I took to make my own.

I started affirming the things I am good at, I desire, I yearn, I love.

Soon the source of validation was myself. I didn’t feel bothered by what others have to say unless they were professional critique.

That made me breathe more and center more.

And it helped turn me into a better leader – in both personal and professional aspects of my life.

I stopped trying to mimic the success of others or my past self.

I didn’t delay in removing things in my life that no longer supported me.

I trusted my gut more and worked with more discipline in my life.

In short, I moved past trying to control how the world saw me to creating how I want the world to see me.

LOVE is one potent ingredient to success. It all starts with you – with loving yourself and all of you!

Blessing of miracles,

Filed Under: Aligning with the Spiritual Journey, Connecting Within, Magic and Manifestations, Miracles Now, Tuning Into the Energies

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